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10/13/2008
Saw the movie yesterday and like before I am a firefighter. I appreciate the movie and loved watching it.
While I watched and saw my life, up there on the scene, I was scared to admit that those issues Caleb dealt with, I deal with too. I found myself looking at my wife of 9 years and wondering what she thought of me? Knowing full well that she knows what I hide, but I am afraid to admit to. This movie has offered me the solution I have been looking for to help save me from my SIN.
I am not a great talker or listener. These well be my "Day one".
Thank you,
Mark
10/13/2008
We saw the movie yesterday and absolutely loved it. We've got a great marriage of almost 23 years and are christians but there were things that we both realized we could do better. We're hoping to get a small group rallied around the bible study at our church. It's a shame hollywood hasn't learned the lesson of what real people want to see on the big screen! Bravo to everyone who worked on this movie!!!
10/13/2008
My husband and I have been married for 28 years. We have had our ups and downs over the years, but I KNOW that when we our close to God and faithful in our church and serving HIM, our marriage is definitely better. I am very thankful for my husband and would not want anyone else to spend my life with. I thank God for bringing me the perfect mate for me. My husband and I saw FireProof yesterday, and I realize we could have an even stronger marriage with God as the center of our lives. Our children are married now and it is surreal to watch them go through the same things we did in our early years. If you could only give them wisdom from your mistakes, but I realize they have to learn on their own. I have ordered "The Love Dare" for both of them in hopes it will help them have a wonderful Christ-centered marriage. My son is in Fireman's Academy now and I can see where their marriage and his career could be even more successful with this program. I am so anxious to receive our books and look forward to the blessings we will receive.
10/12/2008
I wanted to go see the movie because I had heard such great reviews. I just told my husband we were going to the movies. We went yesterday and my intent was to show him areas he was lacking, but I found that I need it as much if not more than him. We have been married for 31 years and actually divorced for a few months a few years ago. I attend church and have accepted Jesus as my savior and want so desperately for him to go with me. After seeing the movie, my first thought was, what does he see in me that would make him want to go. I found alot of areas that I need to work on and have ordered the book. My prayer is that after 40 days, he will have the desire to go to church with me. Also that he will see Jesus reflected in me every day of our marraige and that we can restore the love that we first started with.
Dar
10/12/2008
My husband and I have been together 21 years but only married 12. About 7 years ago we separeted, he had his attention on other things and I allowed myself to be wooed by the attention of another man. His nephew. Although he had been unfaithful before, mine was the ultimate SIN.
We got saved (separately about 4 years ago) reconciled shortly afterwards and renewed our vows in 2006. It's been a struggle, there are members of his family that have not forgiven me and may be never will. My family sits an waits for him to "mess up".
But even through in all the best thing that ever happened to us is the Love of Christ. This movie just reaffirmed that "ALL things are Possible" and that a Marrige is "Worth Fighting For"
The same way the potter heats up the clay to mold it.. God "put our Marriages on FIRE" so we can be molded as ONE.
God Bless the makers and Creaters of this Book & Movie. And I encourage you to go see it, buy tickets for friends & Family members..
AVG
10/12/2008
My husband and I went with some friends to see Fireproof. This movie touched our marriage so much. My husband and I both agree "They must have been following us around and made this movie about our marriage." This movie was so wonderful, and touched us both. I think I was crying most of the time. Our marriage is definately proof that God will work in your marriage if you let Him. We have been through alot in our marriage as I know many marriages have. If God can heal our marriage and we let Him work in each of us everyday then we can make it. I would HIGHLY recommend anyone that is married or that is getting married to see this movie.
10/12/2008
My fiance and I just saw the movie a few days ago. He is also a firefighter, and I work as a paramedic. We are getting married in 6 days, so this movie almost served as pre-marital counseling for us. This movie hit close to home for both of us because we can definitely relate to the hectic and demanding job of the firefighter. Sometimes we both catch ourselves getting so involved at work with helping other people, that many times we take the back burner in our lives and forget to put God first, and then each other. After watching this, we realized that we have lost our once very close relationship with God and our church due to our demanding work schedules. We realize that no relationship will last with out God in it. This movie was great for those looking into getting married also. We both had a good cry and told each other just how important and appreciated the other is. I have recommended the movie to everyone!
10/12/2008
My huband and I are already divorced. I still call him my husband, because the Holy Spirit has told me that he is going to restore our marriage and our family. Praise God! I can tell you that I was not the perfect wife, I made a lot of mistakes, and I only wish that I would have known then what I know know. And that is to never give up, keep the good faith, and fight for our husbands and families! Since the divorce, God has made a way where there seems to be no way. I am now a DivorceCare.com leader at my church, and I can tell you that many women come to the class with attitudes (I don't need a man) from listening to non-believers (friends who mean well, but do not know the Word of God!). It's important what advise we listen to and I can only tell you from experience that if you ask 20 people you are going to get 20 different answerd. When ALL you really need to do is get on your knees and go striaght to God! God created women to be our husbands helpmates, to encourage, edify and uplift them daily. We need to love our husbands and show them that we care and love them dearly. If not, there are many women out there that will take him a way from you and your children without thinking twice. Please come into total agreement with me that God will touch CB and that he will have a mighty breakthrough so that one day soon I am believing that I will get to watch the same movie with my honey too! In The Name of Jesus I Pray! AMEN! God Bless You!
10/12/2008
WOW! What a great movie! My husband is a firefighter and when we went to see the movie we new it dealt with marriage and that was why I wanted to go. We have sure had our share of marital problems over the last year and a half of marriage. I think my husbands interest of going probably was because he is a firefighter and likes to see any movie about firefighters. But the inpact it had on both of us was incredible. I felt like it was our story. It could not have been a better time for this movie to come out because talk of divorce had started occuring in our fights and I know my husband and I love each other but we just don't know how to treat each other and put each other and God first in our marriage. It hit my husband and me very hard. I think that was the first time in a long time I have seen my husband cry. We have a long way to go but I am not ready to give up. I have ordered the book for my husband and myself and can't wait to get started, not just on the next 40 days but the rest of my life with my husband.
10/11/2008
My fiance and I went to see this movie last night. We were given free tickets to go see this movie from his sister because we were talking about not being together anymore and we have two kids. We somehow lost sight of what made us happy because we started focusing on the kids and bills. We forgot about each other. We went to see the movie and had no idea what it was going to be about or how good it was. It was just a blessing to have gotten to go see this movie at this crutical time in our relationship. It seemed to be a counseling device through movie. It helped us see that no matter what happens that we need to have GOD leading our way and we will never get lost again. I have ordered the lovedare book and excited about getting started when it comes. Thank you for creating this movie because some people may feel like they are too scared to go to counseling and share their problems. This movie can help those that have their pride in the way instead of their hearts. It opened up our eyes and it will do the same for you. Keep Jesus first and never give up on partner.
Kisha
10/11/2008
My husbands coworker told us to go see this movie. My hubby wanted to "preview it first" so he went to see it a few days ago and told me we HAD to see it together, but I had to bring tons of tissues, cause it was totally OUR LIFE. It took a while to find a sitter for our kids AND our dogs, but once we did, we had a nice date night. The crowd in the theater was HILARIOUS. Nothing but young couples (or should I say, women forcing their hubby's to go with them) There were comments made outlout through the movie from the audience that had my husband and I cracking up! All from the women, of course, lots of nudges to the men in certain parts. "uhhhhuhhh! amen, that's what I'm talking about, praise the lord!" we were so laughing!
The movie hit home in sooo many areas, but we also realized that we have it so much better than so many other people, and it made us feel SAFE that we are going to be OK.
We are only on day 2 of the book, but it's fun, cause we're doing it together!
On the way home my husband commented about the fact that maybe we should start going to church with the kids on Sundays. Praise the Lord, I've been waiting to hear those words for 10 years! I thank God for this movie and the perfect timing, because I've waited 10 years to have my husband say that we should go to church. This alone will bring us so much closer and will make us happier, I am sure of it!.
10/10/2008
I saw the movie last night while my wife was working late, I didn't know when it would be that we could see it together. We've seen our struggles this past yr, I've withdrawn from her in many senses and have never given her the love she deserved (I now realize) even from the very day we were married (3 1/2 yrs ago.) I can relate to the entire movie, the frustration, the mistrust, the unfeeling, the disrespect and the addiction that has plagued me for yrs. My wife at times feels I was never the man she thought she was marrying. With counceling, support groups, and involvement in church we (I) am getting back the life and the true feeling of God's love that is well expressed in this movie. Thank you to the writers, thank you to the directors, the entire crew and actors for your vision to give us a true life movie that everyone can learn from. I'm now allowing Jesus to come back into my life... it's been a hard tearfilled, fist-clenching journey, but I feel salvation coming and a production like this gives me encouragement.
10/10/2008
My husband is in the military, where there is also a high rate for divorce. Our town offered this movie free to anyone that serves in the military, government, law enforcement or fire fighters and their spouses so the opening day we went to see it. Wow it was a powerful movie. They actually were giving away a few copies of the Love Dare and if you had a note taped to the bottom of your chair you won a copy. With the theatre packed I was surprised when my husband won it. I think we have a pretty good marriage but there is always room for improvement and after seeing this movie I saw we had a lot more to work on. He didn't want to start the Love Dare until I got my own copy. I bought the Fireproof your marriage DVD series for couples also to help us and we have yet to start that. I guess he isn't as motivated as I am. So I went out and bought my own copy of the Love Dare. I am on day Four and am already seeing improvements. Its amazing how just little changes can make all the difference. Oh and he has no idea that I got the book. I am so excited to see God move in our marriage and family. I hope to hear how God is moving in yours.
10/10/2008
I am not married yet but my boyfriend and I went to see this movie on opening night. It touched us and opened our eyes to what love and marriage really is about. We know that marriage is not going to be easy but we didn't realize that it might take some work and it does hurt to know that there are people in this world who are living in a loveless marriage. My boyfriend and I are seriously talking about buying the love dare some where and taking it just to make our relationships stronger in many different ways. I also believe that everyone should see this movie. It has touched my life and I love it! Thank you to every one who worked so hard on this movie. It was and still is amazing!!!
10/10/2008
After seeing the movie “Fireproof” with not only my husband but our Growth Group “Military Couples” from our church (NORTH COAST CHURCH!!!), I am moved and touched. That movie opened my eyes and heart and reminded me what God wanted for my marriage with my husband.
We both have been thru 2 painful marriages/divorces. Not only are we trying to defeat all odds and make a marriage successful while my husband is in the Marine Corps, but we are also trying to follow Gods plan for us and our blended family.
We both bring 2 amazing little girls to our marriage and know that we want to show them how to live happily married while dealing with today’s world. We know that by teaching the scriptures and studying with them we are all on the right path.
I pray for all of you and your marriages and families. Today is a new day, treat it like your last and live each moment to the fullest. Know that the Lord is here to guide you thru, it’s time you sit back and give the Lord the steering wheel of your life.
-Heather
10/10/2008
Last night My fiance and I went to see Fireproof. The movie was amazing. I truly can not stop thinking about it and the lessons and all. My fiance is a volunteer firefighter so we went because we go see every new fire movie that goes out. About a month ago we were close to ending our relationship, it was to the point where he told me he was not sure if he was IN love with me anymore. Well, we decided to fight for us still and we have been doing really well. The movie hit home to both of us because of recently going through what we did. As a fireman he bottles up alot of his anger and emotion like most do but he, as well as I, cried several times through out the movie. I have just ordered the love dare book off amazon.com. Our relationship is getting better but I feel every relationship can be stronger so I am going to give it a go.
10/10/2008
Dear Fireproof team,
Thank you for holding the bar so high. In this word it seems that many married couples don't learn to communicate early in marriage. I had heard from our church about the movie in our bullitin and received a pre-recorded message from Kirk Cameron about the movie now in theaters. Then saw the book in the Family Christian Book stores. I mentioned wanting to see it. My husband "suprised" me with a day date while the children were both in school as we ventured to the theater wondering how this movie could impact our marriage. We laughed, cried, and held hands. We've been married 14 years--and we both truly GOT IT. Thank you for being couragous for talking about sensitive subjects, and for lovingly producing this movie. I especially appreciated knowing the kiss was actually with his REAL wife (and not an actress). Way to go! I've recommended the movie to others and hope they enoy it as much as we did. Thank you for stepping up and reaching out to the world. I can't wait to see what you produce next!
Love In Christ,
Darleen
10/9/2008
I retired from an Ohio Fire Department 2 years ago and can't believe how much this movie hit home. Our EAP coordiator told me years ago that the divorce rate in our police and fire department is near 80%, yes 80 %. I believe that a copy of this movie should be sent to of the fire stations in my hometown.
I will be ordering the journal for my wife and I. I feel very fortuate to have survived 29 years in the fire service and remained married to my wife for 26 years.Great movie!
10/8/2008
I just saw Fireproof. A friend of mine who is also having troubles in her marriage suggested my husband and I go see it. Well wishful thinking. I read one of my daily devotionals and someone's testimony and they mentioned the movie. I left home with our son and soon to be daughter a little over a week ago. Mean things were just being said and I couldn't take it anymore. Well after seeing the word "Fireproof", I immediately texted my spouse and told him he should treat himself and go see the movie. The Holy Spirit moved on my heart and I went to the matinee. Glory to God!!! The movie touched me and spoke to me in the area of patience. Something I do not have. I had been in prayer and mediation over our situation for months. Today because of the movie, I decided to go back home. The movie taught me to fight the good fight..... and to be the example for my husband of what a Christian should do. I do not want a divorce and I will fight for restoration of my marriage. The hardest part for me is not going back, but knowing what I'm going back to. Isolation. Non-communication. But i will stand on God's word, stay strong and believe that what God put together, let no man be asunder. Standing on the promises of our Lord and Savior. With HIM all things are possible. I may not be able to change my spouse's heart, But God can. And I need to be his friend.
10/8/2008
Well I just walked in the door from seeing the movie and all I can do is cry. It is amazing how close to my life this movie is. My husband is not a firefighter but a coach who is gone all the time and doesn't get paid for it, which leaves me to tend to our 2 year old, the house, the finances and I work a full time job, go to school and have a second job. I knew that he did this when we got married but how different is life when you have children. I have been fighting the battle to get him to love our family more than coaching for almost 5 years. I have fought, prayed, pleaded, and I am at the point where I just get mad and act like the woman in the movie. This makes my husband mad and frustrated but I don't know what else to do. I try to explain that if he would just act like he cared it might not be so bad but nothing ever seems to work. I have decided to take the 40 day challenge because I am truly ready to give up because I am tired of crying and watching my kid cry because he misses his daddy. I am going to try it and see if it changes the way I feel and maybe we can reconnect somehow. I feel like my home is a house and not a home. We just all sleep here and there is nothing else. I thank God for this movie and book and I hope it works.
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